By Derek Vitalio

Our education system, study skills, and ideological training reflect that we live in a capitalist society.

School largely teaches us to be obedient, have discipline, follow authority figures, and how to read, write, memorization skills, and math.

You’re not supposed to speak to your friends in class; if someone is speaking, you’re being spoken to by your teacher.

Instead of working socially in groups, you spend most of your time solitary behind a desk.

In other words, school teaches us the skills to be profitable, obedient workers for management.

Meanwhile, we never learn social skills and social intelligence in school – unless by accident. You’re never taught how to communicate with your peers, let alone with women. There are no classes in how to deal with relationships or romance.

Consequently, most of us come out of school totally dazed and bewildered as to how to communicate with and attract women.

It’s no wonder that we find our social intelligence and ability to seduce attractive women woefully lacking. Read more »

By Derek Vitalio

Before you get to the Bond and Connection phase with a girl, you first need to build social value for yourself. Without enough social value, she won’t reciprocate the connection and think you’re just another “nice guy” trying to get into her pants.A great way to build that social value is through planned stories and routines.

Planned stories and routines free up your mind to focus on other things.

Like a computer, your brain only has so many clock cycles spare.

Imagine you’re on your way to a bar or club and you’re getting yourself into a good state for approaching women.

Now, imagine that you’re driving along the highway at the same time on the way there – a bit distracting.

Now imagine your friend is in the passenger’s seat asking you about math problems.

There’s only so much that your brain can multitask at one time.

And when you’re talking to women, there’s a LOT for your brain to do.

So you don’t want to bog yourself down in the middle of an interaction with the complex task of coming up with witty conversation pieces on the fly - especially when they can be prepared for ahead of time.

First, I’ll give you a few example routines, and then I’ll show you how to use them.

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By: Thundercat ArtOfApproaching.com

To quote the actor Chris Tucker - “It’s Friday, you
ain’t got no job, and you ain’t got sh*t to do!”

Well, maybe you do have a job and things to do, but
are you doing the things you WANT to do?

Namely: Are you going out tonight to meet some
women?

Friday night is probably the BEST night of the
week to meet women.

Think about it:

It’s been a long, hard week. People are getting off
work. They don’t have anything to do the next day.
They can sleep in as late as they want. They’re
looking to unwind and release some stress. In other
words…

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By Derek Vitalio

Virtually all women want to feel an intimate sense of bond and connection with their man in a relationship.

So a lot of guys naturally attempt to establish that sense of bond and connection with a girl right away.

They approach a girl at a bookstore or club and attempt to establish deep rapport right away by eliciting her values or doing an incredible connection routine.

Unfortunately, they walk away brushed off by the girl and scratching their heads as to what they did wrong.

What went wrong is that they tried to establish an intimate bond and connection TOO SOON.

Yes, getting deep rapport with a girl is necessary - eventually.

But NOT at the first moment you meet her.

If you try for bond, connection, and deep rapport at the first moment you meet a girl, it will blow up in your face.

Why?

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